We all set writing goals, especially during National Novel Writing Month (NaNoWriMo). Some of us fall short of meeting the 50,000 words in 30 days goal. How we handle missing writing deadlines defines how we handle our career.
Early this November, I received a phone call from my in-law’s neighbor. My mother-in-law had just had a stroke and was being taken to the hospital by ambulance. My father-in-law couldn’t take care of himself, much less cope with the crisis.
We had to pack up everything, take the cockatoo to birdy camp, and leave for an extended stay in southern California. Once we were there, we had consultations with doctors, care options and facilities to tour, and my 93 year old father-in-law to care for.
Any idea of NaNoWriMo or any writing that wasn’t related to medication schedules, doctor’s appointments, or insurance policies went out the window.
I’m disappointed that I didn’t make my NaNoWriMo goal.
However. I realize that at times I have to re-prioritize my writing. At times, your writing will have to be placed on the back burner. This year I am missing my writing deadline.
What can you do to keep from letting your guilt about not writing and missing deadlines from detracting from what you have to accomplish and derailing your writing over the long run?

